What You Concluded Is What You Experience

Recently I find myself having a lot of thoughts about a certain subject or object that comes across my eyes or even when I hear about them. It seems that all these thoughts are coming from what I heard about them from friends, or what I read about them before, or what I myself have had an experience with it before - and thus my opinions and conclusions on them. And when these thoughts occurred, there are special parts and parcels of feelings on this particular subject. 

For example, you saw a colleague having to come to office about 1.5 hours late everyday. Your train of thoughts could be:-

He's such a non-discipline worker.

Company paid him and see what's he doing.

I rather the company paid me more for being a discipline worker.

He shouldn't be coming to office late while I have to suffer to come early.

Why nobody notices him?

Why those who notices him does not say anything?

Why his boss allow him to do so?

Why on Earth there is such an irresponsible person?

And you could go on and on and on where you would feel from bad to worse when you keep on focusing upon them. Your mind tend to find thoughts that keep matching up with all these sort of "physical truth". Or better to say that Law of Attraction is matching up all these jabberwocky thoughts with how you think and feel. So they are become more dense and thus backing up your past experience thoughts or what your friends might have spoken on this particular subject.

And - if that is what you make of a flash conclusion, thus it shall be "more" in your experience. The good news is YOU have the control of all these thoughts and emotions. You have a water tap that allows how much to flow out from your thoughts which generates that emotions (they comes in a package, think and feel, think and feel, think and feel...).

More often that not, we too quick to make a conclusion on the certain subject. Well, let's see for a moment where we can actually twist the train of thoughts and thus coming from a different angle and approach for a better conclusion.

He might be efficient in his work that allows him for coming late.

People who deal with him might be able to judge more than I could.

Isn't it better to do the best part of me instead of focusing on him?

Well, he has his own life and career where I have no integral part of.

He is responsible for his own life while I can take responsibility of my own life.

He gets what he thinks about.

I appreciate for his courageous to do and be what he likes and wants.

As you gaze more upon this focus, you would feel better and isn't tending to your own emotions is the ultimate thing? 

Make The Best That You Can - It Will Get Better!

Make The Best That You Can - And It Will Get Better!

We want you to know at any point of your life, really - at any point, you can choose to feel just a little different that you just did. And being persistent and practice feeling a little better will move you to that direction of well-being.

Sometimes we make too big of a jump from where you stand. When you are feeling powerless, you try to jump towards that joyful and lovely and healthy place. That’s too far off a bridge. But what you can do is just feel a little less powerless. Try to reach some thoughts like “I do not need to fully recover now at this red-hot minute, I can slowly take small baby steps. Each day, I would just need to eat a little healthier, think a little healthier and free myself from worrisome thoughts a little. I do not need to always stay in that high-flying joyful state. I can slowly lean towards the happier direction. I can slowly lean towards letting go of the things that bother me. Although there might be times where I fall off from the track, but I remember I could get in again. I remember that sincere feeling of just breathing deeply and let go of what the world thinks. I remember that sincere feeling of what freedom is and feeling so light”.

So, by just slowly, slowly and slowly practicing the vibration or the better feeling will eventually leads you to a better place. We promise it will, it is Law.

With Great Love,

Dennis Tham (words are inspired by beloved teacher - Abraham Hicks)

Source Energy or Consciousness

In order to understand the Law of Attraction, there are a few things that need to be laid as foundation of understanding.

Firstly, the label that we use here as Source Energy has not  much difference than that of which many people have use the label of God - which depicts the unseen forces that has always been there. But we will not use the label of God here simply because the intentionality of this word has been intepreted differently by various sectors of religion and also people.

There are so many similar words that associated with this Source Energy - Consciousness, Universe, All-That-Is, Pure Positive Energy, Love, God and etc. All of them mean the same the essence of our intention to describe this unseen forces.


Imagine there is this bunch of energy flowing out from a source. This bunch of energy is formless and omnipresent. This energy consists of data which can be also be assumed as intention.

Same Energy but Different Intention.

So when this energy is perceived by the perceiver using its sensory perception, it has gain its form and from there this energy is intepreted into something meaningful to the perceiver.

For example, this same energy projecting into different intention as a Human, an Elephant, a Tree, a Rock and Water. Thus, when the perceiver (let's say human beings) perceives via one of the sensory perception of "sight" of this energy of a big clump with long tube, it begins to see the form which is labeled as Elephant. This same goes to the Tree, Rock and Water.

The energy in the Water is no difference than the energy of the Tree. The energy of the Tree is no difference than the energy that is flowing in the Human. It is the intentionality of the energy which differentiate the form but they are all from the same essence - the Source Energy.

So, in this huge and limitless Universe, this Source Energy keeps expanding and becoming everything. And when this "everything" are able to be perceived, they give some meaning to the perceiver. When they are not able to be perceived (for example, the energy cannot be seen, heard, touched, smelled or tasted), it does not mean that the energy does not exist. It simple means that the energy has a different intentionality that can be perceived by other different forms (other than human beings).

His Gay Identity and Balancing with Family (Moving Up the Emotional Scale)

This is a response to a friend who has difficulty finding balance in his family, his mum and his very own unique identity...

“If you do not connect to this stream of love, you have nothing to give to anybody”.

What you really want is to stand in a place of clarity and love, and from this standpoint, you are able to outpour this love to uplift your family, your mum or anyone. When you are in this state of clarity and love, you will set an example for them. But we do not want you to do it for others. We want it to do it for yourself. Whatever action and behavior that comes from that state of your clarity and love will gravitate them towards their own happiness then.

In other words, just think of this. Can you help a poor man to be rich by you yourself staying or being poor? Most probably not. But if you can get rich yourself first, chances are you are able to set an example to them to get rich too.

You might say “Then should I be neglecting the way they are now”? We do not want you to neglect them but by all means taking a break in this moment to connect yourself back to the stream of love and well-being – a small step at one time.

You may start something like this below… Just take some time and feel at each statement below. Stay there at each statement for a while and see whether you can find a small relief within them or not. Start from the first statement to the last… (Don’t jump to the last statement, ok?)

• I feel bad and powerlessness when I do not know what more I can do to make my mum and my family happy.

• I feel some guilty here to be gay and it seems I have disappointed them in some ways.

• I have been trying my best to make my mum happy but she does not seem to be happy.

• I am currently frustrated whether to continue to do things to uplift my mum or to tend to my own feelings first.

• If they have been in my situation, they will know how I would feel too.

• I wish they know my feeling.

• How I wish myself to able to be straight or maybe do something so that I can help to lighten the situation just a bit.

• I know that they actually have good intentions too to want me to be straight.

• Maybe they just don’t know how gay life is like. But in the hearts, they too sincerely want me to be achieve my happiness.

• But I think it is ok that they do not know it at this point.

• Everybody is different in their thoughts and beliefs.

• As I want to them to respect what I stand for, I am hoping myself to respect their thoughts and beliefs too.

• I think there might be many ways that are able to bring harmony within my mum, my family and me.

• Many gay stories and also personal witness of true stories which I know where their family first started out with some problems with them but in the later stage found harmony and balance.

• Deep in my heart I know I love my mum and family very much.

• In some time, I heard that gay guys are more filial and maybe there are some good things in being gay.

• Anyway, I know that whether I am gay or not, I still love them as they are.

• I know that I am more than being a gay guy here.

• I start to come back to know and remember that I am someone who wants to care, someone who wants to love, someone who wants to uplift the people I hold so dearly so much.

• I believe that God or the Universe have mysterious ways of bringing the bigger picture out in the end of the day.

• Meanwhile, I do not need to sort this out by today.

• Maybe I can sit back and relax and just find anything to do that make myself a little bit happier.

• As I know when I am feeling good and happy, the people around me also will feel light hearted and joyous too.

• I know that they have this stream of happiness and love in their life too.

• I know God and Universe are keep flowing this good lives to them.

• As I am gaining the connection with myself, I believe they will come to connect with their own stream of love too.

• I do not need to explain anything to them.

• Meanwhile by slowly gaining my own connection to this stream of love, they too can learn from me when they are ready.

• When they are ready, the will be willing to open their hearts and see.

• Meanwhile I can take baby steps to connecting to the stream.

• I know that if they are able to find the connection by their own focus, they will learn more

• Perhaps by then, they will begin to be much able to stand on their own feet despite of anything.

• In this way, they will be better in their own life too.

• I think in this way I am doing a great service to them because they can now understand also this stream.

• I definitely wish the best for them and for me and for everyone else that I love.

• I can see that I am someone who sincerely intends good in every single way and to everyone around me.

• I know very truly this is the same for the close people around me.

• They too in their soul know this intention of themselves to want the best for everyone.

• I begin to see them through my soul.

• I so appreciate that they have come to love me in some many different ways.

• I appreciate I have myself have all these lovely parts of me and my soul.


We know God and Universe are always flowing love and well-being to you and your family ya... Don't give up but staying relax and take small steps. Everyone around you will also feel more relax.

You are more than what you know yourself are capable of loving...

*Moving up the emotional scale is a process taught by Abraham Hicks

Rampage of Freedom

Do you know you are a free-spirited person?

Do you know you have the freedom to do anything you like?

Do you know there are not one person in this world that can hinder your sense of freedom?

Do you know your parents could not grow you to fulfill their own ambitions?

Do you know your society could not force you into being somebody you are not?

Do you know your authority agents could not enforce you to laws and rules?

Do you know no religion you could separate you from your own inner being, your Source?

Do you know your bosses could not guide you to become his mirror image?

Do you know your lovers could not taunt you to become the perfection of their dream?

Do you know you no one have access to your thoughts and mind?

Do you know you have the most power and freedom to choose any thoughts you have?

Do you know you have the most power and freedom to do any actions that is your birth-right?